The Road Map to TrueLove – the first prerequisite

David Shoshani

In one of our previous articles we have mentioned, somewhat in a poetic fashion, the four tools to find TrueLove. Those four simple and clear instructions would undoubtedly bring TrueLove if followed: to breath; to feel; to live in the now moment and to understand that TrueLove would come. That guidance was expressed so briefly and so unbelievably simple that many of you probably kept on reading without much attention. That was appropriate and perfectly all right because we did say that the human mind would not allow us to believe that TrueLove can be so elementary. 

In any case, and no matter how simple our reality is, those four basic truths have to be detailed and explained. Sometimes in life the simplicity is so simple that it becomes complex. Although the theory has been known for ages and has been told in scarce ancient scriptures and by wise prophets, it escaped the attention of the majority of the human beings. Therefore, only few really understood it and fewer knew what to do to really put it into practice.

In the next serious of articles we are going to delve into some very practical topics of TrueLove. You may encounter, through the reading, words and notions that may seem foreign to you or worse - may cause you to feel uncomfortable and graveled. For example, you may not want to read anything that is sheltered under the general subject of spirituality. You may have a bad past experiences with “spiritual” people or their affiliates that caused you to never want to hear about “that nonsense” again.
But wait. Do not bunk.

We have promised already that TrueLove would be effortless and easily achievable. We are not going to recommend to you, in the name of “spirituality”, to take that course or another or to participate in workshops and such. Nor we will advice you to go to see clairvoyants, astrologers or psychic people. You will not need to buy any special artifacts, no “holly water”, no “uniquely designed amulets” and not even – believe it or not – love potions. We will say it again – It is easy to allow TrueLove into your life and once it is manifested by you in your reality you will look back and remember our words here. You will laugh at the efforts that you now think that you need to place in order to find your TrueLove; and that will be all right, for part of the process is retraining your old thinking patterns and aligning them with the ones of the kingdom of love. 

The spirituality we are speaking differs from the “new age” philosophy. We are referring to a limited and narrow faction whom rather few have the willingness and the endurance to explore and follow. We are speaking of self-consciousness; of the personal investigation of the Self. And honestly, you really do not need to name it “spirituality”. When your friends will ask ‘how you accomplished TrueLove?’ do not answer ‘I did spiritual work”. Rather, tell them about your self-awareness. When the girls around you will be thrilled by your joy with your dream-man, do not tire them with explanations about energies and spirituality. Tell them about the person you have come to be.

Therefore, dear readers, in order to enter the kingdom of love and to live in it you must comply with a preliminary demand that precedes the other prerequisites. 

What you are requested to do is to Remain. Simply to remain and not to run away the moment you hear concept as “consciousness”, or any other sentence that at first may look to you vague or too abstract or even threatening. 

It also may be that in the past you tried the spiritual approach in order to find TrueLove but ended with no tangible circumstances. You listened to your inner voice; took that special workshop to connect with your body; changed your daily diet and wore special jewelries. But ultimately TrueLove didn’t happen to you; else you were not here, were you? That experience might cause you to feel frustration and disappointment to the extent that you became upset with spirituality in general and the people who deal with it specifically. However, you need to understand that you never did something wrong or forgot an exercise. You just assigned too much effort into the process. That in itself impeded the creation of TrueLove. Whatever you did, and with all the partial successes you gained was very appropriate and brought you to this point, to here, right on the threshold of the kingdom of love. No need to make an effort. Your TrueLove is right behind the gate.

Do not despair just because in the past it didn’t work for you as you wished for. The more you remain steadfast and focused in your mind the more you fulfill one of the most important requisites without it would be impossible to enter the Kingdom of TrueLove. That requirement is perseverance.

Three steps

The process that leads you to the reunion with your TrueLove is divided to three separate steps each is clearly distinguished from its peer as oil; water and sand form 3 layers when inserted into a canister. In order to feel the sand at the bottom of that canister one must pass through the oil and the water first. In the same way the reunion phases necessitate the successful crossing of the other initial phases. Skipping a step is really pointless and would only create for you a relationship that by all means could not be considered as TrueLove.