Zeluosielie Kehie
Dimapur
Social obligations play a significant role in Naga society, which is built on the principles of mutual respect, cooperation, and unity. These social obligations are deeply ingrained in Naga culture and play a vital role in maintaining social harmony, promoting community development, and preserving traditional values. However, to some extent, I should say we have so many unnecessary social obligations. I don’t denounced social obligations. I do acknowledge them however, there is a limit to everything and excess of anything is poison. Unnecessary social obligations can have several effects on individuals and communities.
1. Unproductive activities: Unnecessary/Excessive social obligations can lead to unproductive activities.
2. Inefficient use of resources: Unnecessary/Excessive social obligations can lead to an inefficient use of resources, including time, money, and energy.
3. Stress and anxiety: Unnecessary social obligations can lead to feelings of stress, and anxiety.
4. Guilt and shame: Failing to meet these obligations can result in feelings of guilt and shame.
5. Burnout: Excessive social obligations can lead to emotional exhaustion and burnout.
6. Strained relationships: Unnecessary social obligations can lead to resentment and strain relationships with family, friends, and community members.
7. Limited personal time: Unnecessary social obligations can leave little time/room for personal pursuits, hobbies, interests, innovation and problem-solving skills. It can also lead to missed opportunities for personal growth, learning, and exploration.
We need to reduce or restraint ourselves from unnecessary social obligations so as to save resources/funds and to invest in more productive activities, be it in agriculture, horticulture/sericulture, livestock farming, sports, businesses, sports, start-ups etc for the development of our state and the growth of individuals.
